Humans cannot live alone and they need a person who loves them and they can share their feelings, emotions, and all the happy moments. We come into a relationship with a person whom we can trust and also win their trust. A relationship is a bond between two people based on mutual understanding, like, love, and trust. We are tied in a relationship with our parents since birth with natural trust and love. The relationships that we make as individuals are friendships and romantic relationships. We are going to talk about romantic ones.
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QUICK TIPS TO IMPROVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER:
Maintaining a relationship is not easy for anyone. Ups and downs are very common and the main thing that matters in all this is how you both encounter them. Quick bits of advice to get a successful relationship are:
1. Communicate openly and without hesitance with each other.
2. Make time for each other even with a busy schedule, just a few minutes can also be enough.
3. Be supportive and never stop your partner from doing anything.
4. Show love and affection in all kinds of ways from big to small.
5. Stop being possessive.
6. Stop being overprotective and restrictive.
7. Always be ready to compromise and show appreciation for anything your partner does.
8. Be honest and stay away from things your partner hate.
9. Be patient and supportive, even when things are difficult.
10. Make sure you have fun together otherwise you both will get bored.
MAIN PROBLEMS IN A RELATIONSHIP:
- LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS:
Long-distance relationships only work when there is trust between both. If there is no trust and understanding long-distance relationships become a menace. LDRs are the most common causes of why partners’ breakup. It feels frustrating when you are not able to meet too often. It is very scary to love someone when he or she is far away and we get some red alarms in our mind even by just thinking. You hate when you see your partner enjoying themselves with their friends and you are not able to spend time with the person you love.
TIPS TO MAINTAIN A LDR:
1. Take out most of the time from your busy schedule and spend your precious time with each other on video calls or voice calls.
2. Meet as soon as there is a way to recreate your chemistry that you can’t create on the phone and online.
3. Talk about how will you like to communicate to reduce miscommunications and unnecessary expectations.
4. Prioritize talking with each other as soon as you get the time and make real efforts so that none of you gets frustrated enough.
5. Don’t talk much and understand that your partner decided on LDR due to his/her good and successful future and let them work on it.
6. Give each other space. Don’t just rush when you see your partner online, they can be busy doing their work.
7. Don’t rush to reply immediately to every text, email, and call that comes, and don’t even expect that your partner will do the same because this can only lead to heartbreak.
8. Find new topics to talk about so that your partner finds them interesting.
9. Don’t be over-possessive and over-restrictive as it only breaks the trust that has been built and your partner becomes frustrated with all this.
10. Spend your good and bad times with each other instead of dealing with bad times alone.
- LACK OF COMMUNICATION:
If there is no lack of communication in a relationship, those relationships are considered to be the most successful. Relationships need effective and regular communication in order to be open and free with each other. You guys can stop communicating with each other the way you used to that is the main cause of failure. Lack of communication departs your ways and when you don’t talk to each other, you are unaware of what feelings, emotions, and difficulties your person is going through. Communication is a two-way path that both partners need to focus on in the relationship together. In order to have a successful relationship, communication should be the priority.
- ARGUMENTS:
Before communicating with your partner, make sure that you leave all your difficulties, bad times, and negative thoughts on one side otherwise this will only lead to arguments. You guys should express yourselves peacefully and maturely. If you are angry about anything, don’t talk and avoid communication.
- NO EXCITEMENT:
It can be difficult to keep a relationship exciting, but it is not impossible. Plan different things to spice up your relationship and come up with topics that you think your partner will love. You have to take out time from your busy schedule to keep the initial romance alive in your relationship.
- OVER-POSSESSIVENESS:
The first thing that’s needed in a relationship is trust and if you have trust, you have to stop being over-possessive over your partner. If you restrict your partner from talking to others or giving time to the opposite gender, you are just losing your partner slowly. Over-restriction can make your partner uninterested. Trust is one of the most important aspects of any relationship. If you’re questioning whether or not you can trust your partner, calmly yet firmly ask them if there’s a reason for concern. If your partner has trust issues, reassure them and make them satisfied that there is nothing to worry about.
HOW TO FIX RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS?
It is simple to fix a relationship if you both are equally dedicated to the process. Fixing a relationship mainly depends on each partner’s willingness towards the goal and their contribution towards it. Some of the beneficial ways are:
1. Say sorry when it’s your mistake
2. Schedule regular dates either online or in person either at night or day.
3. Have trust and reassure it every time.
4. Spend time asking questions to each other and come up with some solutions to any problem.
5. Stop being angry and aggressive.
6. Stop being restrictive
7. Dating is not just being over-protective, it’s all about building trust and working on the relationship equally.
8. Take time outs to discuss and resolve issues.
9. Ask yourself where is the problem and then bring accurate solutions to them to stay together.
10. Be honest and don’t do things that your partner hates.
CONCLUSION:
Relationship and dating is not a one-sided game, instead, it’s a two-way game in which both partners have to play an important role in order to stay in the relationship successfully. Relationships won’t work when one-sided efforts are put into them. Both partners should be able to compromise
